Have you ever pondered how much of love is “about the heart”… and how much is” about hormones?” Whether love at first sight really happens? This topic had come to my mind when one of my dear friends asked me this. I don’t know what was on her mind but the question was that can a person love two different people at a time???
Love is so confusing, so I wouldn't try to understand it. I will just go with my gut. The thing is that what is love, can a person love twice, can a person love two persons at a time and so on… there are many other questions related to it; and the answer is unknown. The heart is a very complicated thing.
The answer is different from person to person. Some fall in love once or twice in their life time whereas others fall in love many times. What kind of love it is if it happens again and again??
If you go after the surveys and studies you will find that women are fascinated to buddies with money, status, and ambition. If men look for “sex stuffs,” then women look for “success stuffs.” men fall in so called “love” faster than women do. Women take longer because they have to create a “recall track” of their mate’s behaviors. She has to remember what he promised, what he’s done for the relationship they are in, and what he failed to do. If this is true than where is love??
I believe that the first passionate period of love can last one to three years. After that, these feelings diminish. For me remembering someone every day is Love.